General
A person’s biggest problem isn’t a lack of knowledge—it’s their way of thinking. Think about it: two different people are looking at the same situation. One sees an obstacle; the other sees an opportunity. They hear the same sentence. One gives up; the other gets motivated and takes action. The outside world is the same, but their inner worlds are different. And when their inner worlds change, so do the decisions they make.
I’ve been reflecting on the human mind for about 40 years. For 40 years, I’ve been developing various mental frameworks. I test them out in my own life, and I share the successful ones with my friends, those around me, and others. Over the years, I have compiled some of this work into books. I have also registered some of it as intellectual property. And at the heart of all this work, there was really just one question: Can a person consciously change their way of thinking, or can they change their subconscious programming? If they can achieve this, will their decisions change? Will their life change?
Am I Really Making the Most of My Potential?
Perhaps we’ve been asking the wrong question our whole lives: “How can I increase my capacity?” But maybe the right question is: “Am I really making the most of my capacity?” The two are not the same. Think about it: we all have the same amount of time. We all have 24 hours in a day. Yet some people are able to achieve completely different results within those same 24 hours. Why?
We humans spend our entire lives trying to develop our brains. We read more books and pursue more education. We gather more information, but we almost never ask ourselves a much more important question: Does the system that uses this information actually work properly? In other words, if we need something, can we retrieve the right information from it, or does that information automatically come to us?
Imagine a library. There are books in that library, and it’s like being able to find the book you’re looking for right away. Everything is in its proper place, and the person organizing it can find what they’re looking for immediately. You can buy the world’s most powerful computer, but if you install the wrong software on it, you’ll never see that computer’s true power. The human mind is a bit like that. I’ve never believed that our brains are weak.
Automatic Thinking Habits
People often repeat the same mistakes not because of a lack of knowledge, but because of their automatic thought patterns. They experience a failure, and immediately the same thought pops into their head: “I can’t do it.” An opportunity arises, and the same thought pops into their head: “What if I fail?” They meet a new person, and the same phrase pops into their head: “I wonder if they’ll accept me?” Notice how the situations change, but the mind’s response remains the same. Are we really thinking freely? Or are we mostly living out thought patterns that have been repeated countless times before? Or are we acting under the influence of programs embedded in our brains?
Perhaps what we really need to change are the thought patterns that our brains automatically repeat. Because people don’t live the same life simply because they’re unable to make new decisions. They live the same life because they try to make new decisions using old thought patterns. Here lies a very important distinction. I have never bought into claims that we can tap into a larger portion of the human brain. My focus was entirely different: “Can a person learn to use the mental potential they already possess more consciously?” That power lies within us. What matters is using that power correctly. The things that change our lives aren’t sudden bursts of inspiration; they’re the thought patterns we repeat every day.