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I Can't Love Myself!
Questions like “Is loving myself important?” or “I have issues with myself” are quite common. To explain this, we first need to address one point. Every person has an aura and a certain energy. In fact, our auras are constantly communicating with the people around us—with everyone. You know how people say, “Their vibe is like this, their mood is like that, their energy isn’t good today.” The truth is, we can actually read the thoughts of everyone around us. That’s because our auras and our energies are speaking. Our brains are actually having an internal conversation; we are, in fact, aware of everything, but we don’t do this consciously.
Let’s return to the main question now. If a person constantly says, “I don’t love myself,” we must also take into account the energy and aura communication mentioned earlier. People can sense when someone doesn’t love themselves. Because the subconscious speaks, energies speak, and auras speak. Therefore, the person across from us notices that we don’t love ourselves. So if we don’t love ourselves, why should others love us? In other words, we see ourselves as worthless; there’s nothing about us worth loving. If we don’t love ourselves, no one else will love us either. That’s why you are the most valuable person to yourself.
So you have to love yourself. You may have flaws—nobody is perfect. You may have made mistakes—that’s okay. You may worry about the future, but every day is a chance to start over. Sometimes people’s disadvantages can even turn into advantages. The mistakes you’ve made in the past can come back to you as experience. So love yourself, make peace with your own mistakes, and make peace with what you’ve done. You can’t move forward by dwelling on them, blaming yourself, and staying stuck in that vicious cycle. If you don’t love yourself, you can’t move forward, you can’t be happy, and you can’t be successful. The first requirement for success is loving yourself.
Everyone Has Their Flaws
The concept of self-confidence is actually closely related to this. People described as having high self-confidence are generally people who love themselves. This is something their surroundings can sense. What people describe as “having a lot of charisma” often stems from a person being at peace with themselves. Of course, exaggeration is always bad—we know this, and we’re aware of it. But love yourself at the very least, friends—what’s the harm? After all, you need yourself. If you don’t stand up for yourself, if you don’t love yourself, if you don’t value yourself, no one else will value you either. Throughout your life, you are bound to live with yourself—that is, with your soul and your body together. When one of these is missing, life itself is gone.
So we will make peace with ourselves and love ourselves. We may have flaws; there are people with flaws who have turned those flaws into strengths. There are people with flaws who have become very famous, and there are people with flaws who have become very happy. Perhaps the things you often see as shortcomings or flaws in yourself aren’t actually flaws at all—they might just be your own perspective. So let’s love ourselves above all else. Because without that—if we don’t love ourselves—we can’t love others either. That’s why love is so important, and loving yourself is the most important of all.